The world is violent and mercurial — it will have its way with you. We are saved only by love — love for each other and the love that we pour into the art we feel compelled to share: being a parent; being a writer; being a painter; being a friend. We live in a perpetually burning building, and what we must save from it, all the time, is love.
– Tennessee Williams
Today it feels like the world is ending. The lightning strikes from the past weekend have left all of California burning and smoking. I ventured out at noon today to buy groceries; I earned a headache for my troubles. The air was gray and hazy or a menacing orange. The children are inside and restless despite their nanny’s attentions. Even the Beast is on edge.
I feel the baby thumping in my belly and I feel oddly calm. He was conceived in a pandemic, and now there is a firestorm, and God only knows where we’ll be by Christmastime, when he’ll come into this world.
Despite all these horrors the path forward is clear: nourish this little person, give him birth, nurse and feed and nuzzle him, keep his brother and sister thriving. Put my faith in certain things: the love of my husband, the gentle, honest, funny attention of friends near and far, the quiet presence of God, like an immense whale swimming beneath my raft.
For all its frustrations the quarantine has been restorative in unexpected ways. I find our marriage bond deepening. We are less troubled by things that don’t really matter (though I confess a certain blind optimism about our employment, to be sure, that other people do not enjoy). We enjoy having the children cuddle up in our bed in the mornings, watching them grow and chatter and play together. Before bedtime, they climb on him and squeal with delight as he bounces them. We talk about them before we go to sleep at night, laughing about CC’s escapades and HR’s sturdy charm.
I am getting on my (swollen) feet more and more. I bought a treadmill to go under my desk and I am stomping through my meetings to reach 10-14k steps a day (today I did twelve thousand). I am able to cook dinners again, both for myself and the family. Food still repulses me a little. I have a special affection for potatoes at the moment.
We have put together a list of things to take with us in case of evacuation. Tonight we’ll pack some of it. I hope it doesn’t happen, but I have a core of steel in me when it comes to disasters. If the house burns down, then it burns down. All I care about is these people I love, and making it through together.
I was listening to my favorite piece of music while I was working today–Rachmaninoff’s Divine Liturgy. The communion hymn is so beautiful; to give a visual interpretation, it sounds like all these little streams of song flowing together. The communion of saints! It caught my attention and I paused to listen to the alleluias.
However, my favorite hymn is the last one–Glory to the Father. The singing builds to a single high note, sustained for only two or three seconds, but it is a sublime moment. It has always pierced me through to the heart, and on occasion I’ve cried. I don’t know what the word or phrase is, but oh–it seizes me like nothing else.
Glory to God for all things.